Preventing Divorce as a Couple-The Key Questions to Ask Before You Tie the Knot
The likeliness or possibility of divorce is a reality that we never want to face off with and one that we don’t ever allow come to mind when we are in the search for someone we will be settling down with as a life partner. But as a matter of fact, looking at some relationships, divorce is just a real part that they will have to deal with going forward. In as much as this is the reality, it is not supposed to instill fear in all relationships anyway, in as much as divorce happens to some as a reality, the same fate doesn’t have to befall you anyway.
By and large, while it is a fact that we cannot prevent the issues of life from coming our way as two who’ve decided to live together for life, the power there is with us is that of working as hard as to ensure that the relationship we have as a couple are as strong as to be able to stay whatever tides that may come our way. And for you to be sure that these are taken care of and to stay assured of these going forward, you should work on these particular things even before you finally tie the knot.
There are quite a number of issues that are often assumed or at best glossed over by so many. Ensure that you are asking your would-be life partner the most critical questions as asking the right questions indeed goes a long way in helping you forestall most of the issues that make relationships start on the wrong footing and as such end in parting of ways. The following is a look at some of the questions you should ask your partner before you finally settle in marriage to assess your compatibility and as such keep divorce at bay as much as you can.
One of the areas that you should be as candid with and talk of as early as you can before you finally take the final leap and settle into marriage is that of their financial goals and the approach to b used as you pull together to realize them. You need to appreciate the fact that matters of money and the management of the same between you as a couple will or may prove such a thorny issue between the two of you and for the sake of ensuring that these are taken care of way in time before you are finally settled as a couple, you should ensure that you are as clear on the goals and aspirations of your to-be spouse.
Ask your spouse how many children they would want to have before you tie the knot and see whether it would be one that resonates with you.